By asking her what she likes, you show that you care, and by letting her know what turns your crank, you have expressed how she holds the ability to titillate and satisfy you.
Does anyone have ideas, how to gently start new conversations/things?1---When giving her a dozen roses, 11 real and 1 fake, say I will love you until the last rose dies.2---Last night I looked up into the stars and matched each one with a reason why I love you.Do it on your terms, and if she doesn't let you by threatening you, be ready to post about it on social media. Post on facebook how she is threatening you by saying she will tell the world you threatened to kill her if you divorce or question her on cheating.In short, part from her and get someone better who you deserve.For instance I swapped a pack of normal briefs for a pack of thongs (she knows I like them), and I asked if she would occasionally wear them.
She wore one once and not again, I now feel silly bringing the subject up again as she's never happy talking about it.You seem to have forgotten it was not too long ago when you were fumbling around desperately trying to undo bra clasps.Give your wife a break; you need more patience and a guiding hand to graduate her from rookie to all-star. I can tell from the tone of your writing, you are pushing too hard and offering too little. Firstly, both of you should communicate about what you both like; instead of you just trying to make her do what you want.Finally, the most promising and possibly the most applicable of the three — she is a rookie. Don’t jump to conclusions, it is not always obvious.This really boils down to lack of experience, not quite knowing what you want or how to do things and a general feeling of self-consciousness. The first two are character traits, being a rookie is only an experience issue.So I'll give you the next best thing...world.17---My heart beats your name18---look into my eyes and you'll find me. 45---I was just going to say something, but I forgot when I started looking at you.46---My love for you is like a circle it has no beginning and will know of no end47---Some night when you're outside, look up at all the stars in the sky, each one represents is a reason I'm in love with you48---You're my better half.